Aita

Aitah for having an issue with my boyfriend after he told me he would prefer a female doctor but he also said he isn’t okay with me having a male doctor. I’ve literally never had an issue with any of my partners seeing whoever for a doctor as it’s medical related, but in this instance I find it weird that he would prefer a female and made a comment about how he wouldn’t want me to have a male doctor. He’s also allowed females to be disrespectful towards our relationship like his ex messaging him saying “come over and don’t tell your gf” which he’s never acted on, but it bothers me he’s never told her to stop talking like that and then now all of a sudden he has a preference of a female doctor. Hes made up a bunch of excuses like he doesn’t trust men, but he’s had male doctors the entire time I’ve known him. Aitah for feeling weird or off about this?