I don’t know how to handle my husband and my daughter’s constant chatter

My daughter is 9 yo and I guess she’s reached a stage where she’s a noise maker now. 🤷🏻‍♀️😅 It’s a rather new development. She’s constantly telling us all the little details of everything that happened at school. Or asking lots of questions. Or just making noises or singing. It doesn’t really bother me but it drives my husband up the wall. He’s constantly teller her to be quiet, stop talking, or telling her “we’re gonna have quiet time now”. I’m not sure if it has something to do with his ADHD. If he gets overwhelmed. He says he’s not sure but it makes him feel like his head is gonna explode.

But it doesn’t sit right with me. I’m just not sure what the right move is. When I was a kid I was also very hyper and chatty and I hated constantly being told to “chill”.

I want to let my daughter be herself. And I also love that she tells me about her day. How would you go about dealing with them?