C-Section or Vaginal Birth?

Hi everyone, I just need some opinions in order to weigh my options better, and you have all been so nice to me this entire pregnancy. I am a FTM, 33w pregnant and I was told by my OB that while she would prefer me to have a vaginal birth due to an overall faster heal time, C-section is certainly something I can opt for if I’d like. Either way I’m being induced for 37 weeks.

As I see it, each has pros and cons.

For c-section pros: 1) I’m not pushing a human out, tearing up my vagina to my butt 2) I won’t have to deal with labor pain 3) it’s faster 4) I feel more in control

Cons: 1) longer heal time 2) less skin to skin bonding initially

For vaginal birth pros: 1) faster heal time 2) more bonding and easier time breastfeeding 3) the final step of lung maturation is more natural rather than manually done (i was assured either way was okay though by the doctor)

Cons: 1) my poor vagina, man 😭 I’m terrified 2) feel like I have no control 3) I might have the wonderful experience of crapping the bed while pushing (I’d be mortified) 4) induction hurts more than normal labor thanks to pitocin

I need someone who’s going through it or has been through it to just talk to me about their experience, or give me advice because I need to choose asap. Thank you in advance