What's with most women 'never checking' dating apps these days?

Probably 4 out 5 women mysteriously disappear after we exchange a couple messages if not as soon as we match

When I violate international online dating law and send a double or triple message about 50 % will eventually respond and say something to the effect of 'sorry I never come on here and I've got notifications off' and in many cases that’s the last I hear from them, but sometimes they'll be up for chatting and hanging out

Is this usually just an excuse because I made them feel bad when they're really just chatting to dudes they find more attractive or do most women seriously only check the apps once a week or less?

I can't really blame them - the apps are dogshit after all, but still, seems like a waste of everyone's time

Come to think of it I can’t remember the last time I had a conversation in real time

Honestly it’s probably been a year or two since I spoke to someone who didn’t take at least 20 minutes to reply to any of my messages

Before I deleted my old profile I scrolled through early chats from 2019 and remembered how with most matches we would have conversations in real time that felt simply like two people who were keen to get to know each other having a regular fun conversation, not one guy trying to move heaven and earth to get a reluctant woman to even respond to him only to vanish when he asks her out.

I got older... I'm 30 now... but I'm better looking than I've ever been so that doesn't really explain why almost every woman I match with is never available