Feels like parents are always rushing me

I moved to the US for studies back in 2021. Back then my parents were always rushing me to study cs , graduate and try to get sponsorship. I got married last year and my husband is a US citizen so I don’t need the sponsorship anymore. I took a break from school for the first time since ageh I couldn’t due to my visa. I am taking my time to focus on my health and fitness, learning about finance and thinking what degree I want to pursue now because I was forced to study cs for the visa. My husband and I own a home here, we have a car, adopted a cat together and he works a really good job. I am at peace for the first time since being here but my parents whenever they call , they say something like ‘ oh your cousin bought a car and is buying a new apartment in new York’ like yes she has been here since 2008!! And even then she didn’t even go to university here just got married and lives on welfare … anyone else have parents that are never happy or always making them feel rushed ..