No. Such. Thing. As. Neutrality.

And I will die on this hill... what sucks is when you tell people what happened to you, people who were there AS it was happening, opening up to them, so they KNEW how much pain you were in and they either pretended to be neutral or to feel for you. People who even told you that the person wasn't good for you. Only for them (mutual friends/acquaintances AND people you knew, that the fucker started talking to) to randomly stop talking to you while they continue to interact or exist around the person who caused all this mess. This is exactly why you can't trust anybody. Somehow, they've got everybody wrapped around their finger?