Is my Wife looking for something that doesn't exist?

My wife is looking for a new place to call home in the next year and a half.

Her needs/wants:

-Small town under 10k within 30-45 mins of a large town that has everything you could possibly need

-Milder climate 35-75° year round with 4 seasons

-In the forest and on or close to the ocean

-MCOL/affordable

-Commuteable to a University to finish her graduate degree (not offered here)

-Safe and family friendly

-Decent school system for kids

-More sunny days than over cast

We currently live in AK and while we both like it here there is just a lack of amenities and a road system. It's expensive and we can't really afford to travel and do things we enjoy. Unfortunately, the University she's attending doesn't offer a SLP program for her graduate degree so we will be relocating to pursue that. We have 2 kids with another coming in 2 months.

What I am looking for:

-Outdoor recreation, Camping, Hiking, Hunting and Fishing

-Staying on the West Coast

-Job opportunities in Power Generation/Diesel Repair

-Cool climate

-Rural

I'm aware the PNW is sounding right for us but I can't find a place that meets our needs there.