The episode where Jana & Allan’s masks fall off

JANA HATES HER DAD BECAUSE THEY ARE THE SAME

Before we get into the summary I will say Jana has found her new “infidelity victim” identity. She is now a “co-parenting victim”

Jana & Allan wanted to recap Thanksgiving because they “can’t debrief while the person they want to debrief about is in the house”

Jana’s dad would make Allan coffee. Allan said her dad would try to be accommodating and offer different variations of coffee. Jana said her dad drove her nuts with it. “Annoys the piss out of me. You’re asking me what I want but you’re not giving me what I want.”

Allan said Janas dad stirred his coffee with a sting cheese which Allan called animalistic. Allan said “it was one of the moments, I want to slam the table and say this is unacceptable”. Then her dad talked with his mouth full of cheese and coffee. Now I know where Jana gets her issues from

“My dad can’t just sit in silence. I have a really hard time with people who just want to fill silence with small talk” UMMMM YOU CANNOT BE ALONE FOR A SECOND, YOU ARE THE SAAAAAME

Jana loves about her moms side of the family they ask her nothing about work. Because they can’t stand you, it’s why half of them didn’t come to your wedding Her dad asks about her childhood friends, Jana claimed her dad is stuck in a time-warp of when he left the house. “Feel like he is trying to make up for lost time. Dad take a breath. He has to feel settled that he doesn’t have to speak 24/7.” Allan defended him, Allans said he saw he almost had to step in. Her dad would say Scotland in a Scottish accent and even his new wife had to tall him to stop.

Jana about her dad “HE ISNT’ VERY AWARE AT TIMES”💀 Allan said he wants to please you. Jana “we are ok, I won’t write about you in my next book.”

The level of frustration and anger Jana had during this segment of the podcast revealed a lot!! She is no where near healed from her daddy issues. The way she spoke of her dad and the anger she had while describing how she would snap at him was IDENTICAL to the way she treats Mike but honestly it sounded worse (shocking, I know). I can only imagine how rude she is to her dad all the while staying in his home. Why didn’t you stay at your mom’s then? Or at an Airbnb? She is so critical of her dad but doesn’t see their parallels. Both are cheaters. Neither of them can sit still in silence. How many times have we seen Jana camping out in front of Allan’s office while he is working? Jana used to popup at the gym when Ian would go, allegedly. Both have 3 or more marriages under their belts.

Jana said that while in Michigan for Thanksgiving, they had dinner for anniversary of meeting. Yes like we said they first met and banged for three days straight.

CO-PARENTING

Guest. When 50/50 means the dads are in it to win it. Society communicates dads don’t matter. Studies show dads are just as important as moms. Jana responded “mhmm”

Allan asked the guest “so when you went to 50/50 did he stop paying maintenance?”

Guest says she listened to Mikes episode. Jana paying Mike always creates tension. She found it not struggling they are struggling with it.

Jana said him paying his share of the kids would be great. “Clearly my ex needs the support to house kids in a house. Yes, that’s where the anger is too. I paid you alimony on top of this.” Jana said she never sees the day coming where Mike won’t need the child support. Allan agrees, he said in the UK he’s never heard a woman pays a man. False, there are cases of women paying men support in the UK. This no good loser needs to STFU because I doubt he wants everyone to know about his financial standing overseas. Allan is the one that had to sell his house to pay off debts from the car accident so last thing he should do is judge Mike’s financial situation. Again, Jana and Allan are forgetting Mike worked along side Jana. What do they expect him to get nothing when she was/is the primary bread winner? Nope! Maybe next time think twice before getting pregnant. Jana claims Mike only took in the marriage money wise and would blame her for not having a job.

Jana spiraled asking why she would give Mike 50/50 when she asked “what did you do at dad’s last night, the kids reply video games” Jana said it felt like a dagger and she gets upset. She clearly wants to control what goes on in Mike’s house and she even admitted that in this episode. The guest said Jana’s feelings are normal but the kids have a basic human right to be parented by both parents. Jana is furious they play video games by Mike. Whooopdeedoo! The kids are there one freaking night during the week and every other weekend. It isn’t going to melt their brains. You constantly say to Mike “you can’t tell me what to do in my house”, then why the f*ck do you think you can tell Mike what to do in his house?!??!?!

Jana also admit the kids now ask “when is daddy day” and continued “but i want my babies” This, this right here is why Jana has suddenly become bitter. By taking 70% I bet she hoped the kids wouldn’t like Mike because they wouldn’t see him often. Jana didn’t count on the fact that Mike is kind and Mike is their emotional safe place and person. The peace, love, and warmth they experience at Mike’s will never happen at Jana’s. I mean look at how Allan has admittedly said he treats Jace. Look at the comment above about wanting to slam his hand on the table when Jana’s dad ate cheese with his mouth open. Jana and Allan are toxic and the kids are beginning to see it too

Allan “our situations are different. I pay my ex money.” Lies. How does he pay his ex-wife when he isn’t employed?!? “When we split she has had him more because I traveled a lot. I was not around, even 70/30 wouldn’t work. I’ve never been in a place where I can try to have 50/50 not even close to it. Which is why no one likes to pay money but I’ve done it for years” “Yeah she gets money but she is taking the responsibility, like 80 %, even more now. She’s alway had him.” “There’s been struggles to pay money and no one likes to pay money” DING DING DING!!! LADIES AND GENTLEMEN AND THERE YOU HAVE IT. Dumb and dumber are struggling financially. Allan was the most vocal he has ever been about Mike receiving child support. He has clearly become a parakeet and is copying everything Jana is saying. What I love most is that Allan LITERALLY just admitted he is a shit dad and NEVER even had 70% custody? Claiming it’s because of his job?!?! Bro you weren’t Christian Ronaldo, there is an off season which is when you could have been with your son. But nooooo I bet your last girlfriend was top priority even over your kids, kinda like they are now with Jana. It is soooo funny to me that both Jana and Allan put their significant others over all of their children.