Odd caffeine side effects

So usually I have my coffee when I wake up, around 2 cups to get me going after my shower, then in the afternoon I usually have a cup as well. I noticed that by my third cup, my heart starts beating and I start feeling energized, I find myself getting distracted from work, and more distracted watching porn. Not vanilla hetero porn of what I would normally watch in the evenings, but gay porn. I also find myself installing grindr and meeting up with hung tops to annihilate my asshole. It sucks because I NEED the coffee to stay awake, but I also NEED cock up my ass if I have too much. How do I keep myself from drinking that third cup? I just can’t help it. Energy drinks? 🤔