“… but someday you’ll have children, too and see what it’s like” I hate when people talk like this

I absolutely hate when people talk about kids being something that you’ll inevitably have, whether you like it or not. It just says in a way you’ll have kids no matter whether you like it or not, which in my opinion just diminishes the autonomy people have. I can absolutely make it so I can’t have children when I think I don’t want them, it means I don’t want them. I can use a condom, talk to a partner to use contraception, hell, I can keep it in my pants in general, and bam, I can’t have children. There are men who are sterile, women who are infertile, there are men who have vasectomy, women who sterilise themselves, tying or yeeting their tubes. Just because those people think it’s “the natural order of things” to have children, they think me and others will inevitably have children, or talk like it will happen whether I like it or not. Does that mean that infertile women and sterile men are unnatural? Even ones who want to bar children. Does that mean if I get a vasectomy I’m a mentally sick moron?

I just HATE when people talk about children like that.