Does anyone else feel the FGO communities as a whole are getting less helpful?

I dont know if its a common experience but frequently when i ask for advice on a boss fight or something in FGO communities (not limited to this subreddit), i either get no response, joke/troll responses like "just do whatever", "just use leyline stones", or sarcastic responses like "how long have you been playing?", "oh no, i can't clear fuyuki, help plz", etc.

And it frequently gets derailed by someone complaining that "people these days don't want to try and clear fights on their own, they always ask for help and want everything spoonfed to them" followed by several others chiming and talking about how they cleared a boss fight without trying, the game is so easy these days, etc.

Another common outcome goes like this :

  • Someone : Just use [something i don't have]

  • Me : I don't have that unfortunately, do you have any other suggestions?

  • (Nobody bothers replying anymore)

At one point, i was even told i was "wasting the time of volunteers" by "asking for help when you have been playing the game long enough, you should know how to do these fights on your own", and muted from a help channel.

And its just gotten worse over the years. Maybe its because people keep getting more/better servants over the time but people seem to have been getting a lot more elitist and less helpful in general even though the fights have been getting harder and harder.

Now it seems like a real struggle to get any real advice that isnt "just use CS/leyline stones". For the last event, i tried to get help to put together a team for an event node and everyone just stopped replying once i said i was missing a servant in the google docs spreadsheet they were using...a year or two ago, people would have been like "oh, you dont have X? try Y instead or maybe borrow Z". Now people just link to a google doc and cant be bothered to actually talk about making comps. And for story fights it just defaults to "you can do whatever, just use leyline stones", nobody wants to talk about boss mechanics anymore.