Anyone get seriously annoyed by the prospect of someone dating your LO?

Sounds like a pathetic sanctimonious platitude... well it is really, but hear me out...

I’m not even attracted to most women, and maybe once a year or two do I come across a woman who I find physically and emotionally beautiful enough for a limerent attraction to occur (bonus points if they’re unavailable)

It seems to me the average guy is somewhat attracted to most women, maybe wiling to date 25% of women if they show interest in them

So when they end up dating an LO or I find out an LO is already in a relationship when I cross paths with them… I can't help but get annoyed by it

It’s like fucking hell can you not date literally anyone else? You'd probably be just as happy with someone else, unless you happen to be infatuated with them as well, in which case, steady on my good man.

In my mind it’s kind like I’ve got a broken leg and some prick has taken the disabled bay by the entrance who could have taken any other bay , or some burglar steals an heirloom which means nothing to them but a bit of cash if they pawn it off

I'm sure many of these guys do adore them and their relationship is healthy but still it’s how I feel

But worse is when you hear that your LO is in an unhealthy relationship or with someone who doesn’t treat them well. That happened recently and it cut me up inside like it’s one thing to have them date someone else but to hear that the other person doesn’t actually appreciate them

I prefer slightly chubbier women while most guys presumably would prefer not to be, and I know at least one past LO was with a guy who made her feel like shit and gave her an eating disorder despite her being barely chubby and him being in poor shape himself... it's like salting the wound.

I also get annoyed at LO, wondering how the hell they could date someone like that, especially if I had actually expressed my interest and been rebuffed.

But here comes the irrational part... sometimes I don't even want to date an LO... my most recent one I recognize we aren't actually compatible and I just wanted to keep them as fantasy, so in those cases I really have no leg to stand on.

Anyone I'm sure some of you can relate with this?

How do you stop it from getting to you?