Sleeping in my car for 3 months

Been sleeping in my car for 3 months now, I do gig jobs it helps me eat and pay for my car that's it, I take a shower in the gym but is getting cold and sometimes they kick me out of Wawa parking lot... Anybody knows where I could get real help for housing not a shelter they are not safe ..I'm in Hudson/ bergen county I'll appreciate any information thanks in advance