Would you marry someone who was raised by narcissists?

Me and my partner have been engaged since august last year. The wedding is this year.

The whole experience has been made awful by my partners parents and now I feel very anxious about entering this marriage. When we met, she explained she didn’t have the best parents and I didn’t think much of it, now after seeing the way they have acted in regards to our wedding I am fully panicked.

Her Narc mum has been pretty much making it difficult at every stop to the point we now have a completely different wedding then originally planned because first, it was her birthday, then she needed an actual ceremony, then it was too far for her so we changed it all(mistake I know). When we saw them at Christmas, her whole family ignored us very obviously for the first half of the day despite being invited there which ended with my partner in tears.

And now, they want to see my partner without me, because as with every one of her girlfriends, I am the issue and making her pull away from the family. My partner sees that this isn’t true and knows who her parents are but at the same time, I feel like there is no point she ever just says “this is not okay and that (my name) doesn’t need to be involved or is t the issue”.

So, would you continue on with the wedding knowing this family is probably your future as your partner will never go no contact?